Racist joke from 1923

CatCuddles · 2012-05-26T16:39:32.656237+00:00

So he left the knife in the chicken? I don't get it..

peacebone · 11 days

I don't think that's a very good idea, as the pressure he feels is the feedback you are giving him and he needs that (regardless of whether he's aware of it) to be able to please you. Worse, the more you let go, the more he might think you're okay with everything, hence spending less time with you because of the new relationship excitement, which would put you in a very bad vicious cycle where you get stuck in your head thinking of worse and worse things.

Talk to him about wanting more sex. There's nothing wrong with that. He's slacking on providing you with himself, as it seems.

You want him to change to some degree: you want him to behave differently so that you can perceive more clearly that you are still important to him. Nothing wrong with that either.

The part about him opening up might be difficult. Men usually can't open up easily, and not easily at all when one sees that opening up hurts the other in the process. Unsure what to do there, but why do you feel like that about his OSO, which you call "girl 2"? She is his other significant person after all, part of his, hence your life.

vajorie · 12 days

[Just to remind myself of this: another redditor suggested elsewhere that a better way to check whether the other person is enjoying it might help ("how's it going down there, hotty?" type banter-like lines rather than a "are you enjoying it?" that might break the mood]

peacebone · 12 days

Do you want him to be your best friend, or do you want to be his only real friend? Or, do you want to be his primary, or do you want her to be and stay as his secondary?

Nonetheless,

I feel like I've lost my best friend.

Talk to him (them? maybe) about what makes you feel this way. In these conversations, try to separate your negative feelings (from your singular / monopoly status in his life being challenged, by the nature of their relationship, by his OSO) from what he is actually doing wrong. Try to find ways in which he can help you feel like you are very important to him.

I'm cleaning, working, I feel like his mom.

(Tell him about this, then) Give him a chore list and tell him to do things on that list every X day.

He can't wrap his head around differentiating between primary and secondary relationships. He thinks it's unfair.

I'm one of those who thinks this is unfair too, so hopefully someone else will provide helpful answers from the other perspective :) Good luck, and don't give up on him.

redsoxrule995 · 16 days

Obvious rape reference on this submission makes sense.

Caticorn · 17 days

Photographers use neutral density filters, iso value, and the aperture setting to restrict how much light can get in even when the shutter is open so that they won't get what you are getting (overexposure). Also, during long exposures, you will need a tripod (or something that acts as a tripod) to avoid camera shake and I think that's a bit difficult with a phone. you might wanna invest in a cheap used camera from ebay instead?..

McStabYou · 18 days

prey, simply because I would feel guilty if I weren't using one if the phone was stolen...

t3hcoolness · 21 days

I got a pangolin from them about 1,5 years ago. Works fine, so never needed the customer support, but I kept hearing good things about them while doing my research. If I need another laptop, I'd have it from them again.

zrockstar · 23 days

Nah, we just really missed lawyer dog.

MKCardwell · 24 days

unless it starts coming out of wherever you stick it on, in which case you now have stickiness everywhere.

vajorie · 24 days

thanks, and sorry about that...

pyther24 · 24 days

side note: nexus one's pouch is too small for gnexus.

vajorie · 25 days

lol just /r/aww

Mattho · 29 days

great, one more thing I can get addicted to.

fitzroy95 · 29 days

No but it really provides an interesting way to use google for attacking websites (or, website owners?)... Though I'm not sure how well it would work for small-scale domains (the guy talks about google limiting bandwidth usage for some websites).

compgeek07 · 29 days

So surely it is your job to learn.

jerommimo · 29 days

I shouldn't have clicked the link... memes, ruined.

notbrokebrokenhearte · 29 days

I wish I had 5 minutes in a room by myself with her to beat the shit out of her.

You, my fellow redditor, are quite a bit scarier than that sister.

wtf_throwaway_ · 1 month

I'm not addressing the part about you supposedly wanting a breadwinner because that part is too transparent --he's feeling insecure, and projecting that onto you using that argument.

You want him to get a job, find him to be irresponsible (which would stir up his insecurities about his masculinity and make him unable to articulate his anxiety in a non-aggressive manner), yet you also mention that he's unable to find a job (so he is looking for a job). Is there any other way for him to contribute / provide to the house while he is looking for a job? I think having him provide for the house using other means while he's job hunting would ease both his masculinity complex, his anxiety, and the pressure he's under (of being perceived as irresponsible, hence child-like rather than a "man").

wtf_throwaway_ · 1 month

he's not providing for me really doesn't ever cross my mind

cool but then again where is he getting the idea of

well I don't like it when you make everything about me getting a job

from?

Cheesus00Crust · 1 month

Because..... they hire foreigners?

okay.

sal_vager · 1 month

because ..... ?

user870 · 1 month

you might wanna look at mpd and gmpc (android has mpd clients, unsure about iphone) to turn the 701 itself into a music player... (mine uses ubuntu for that + print & file server; music resides in an external drive)

BabyGiraffeGirl · 1 month

jesus: familyzoned by mary.

dummystupid · 1 month

Talk about getting religious about dicks...

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