My mother still doesn't trust me with valuables because I lost my discman 9 years ago. What things do your parents/relatives still unfairly hold against you?

xxneonlove · 2 days

Ouch. Sounds no fun. I don't like sausage and my family loves BBQ.

xxneonlove · 4 days

You aren't alone. I live in Texas and I'm a picky eater. This same thing happens to me every time there are more than seven people in the same room eating.

xxneonlove · 4 days

Just curious, how is your relationship with your sisters?

shutting_down · 4 days

I hope I can reach the point you are at when I become a mother. I don't want to deprive them of a relationship with their grandparents but I don't think I have reached the point where I can accept what happened to me and move on from it. But I'm still young and there is time.

You're welcome. It really is nice to just let it all out sometimes, even to strangers.

shutting_down · 4 days

Yeah, my mom is a worrier too. She still does but I cannot, for the life of me, seem to gain anymore weight than what I am at (It only ever fluxuates by five pounds from 110lbs)

shutting_down · 4 days

I don't think they do either. I don't think she even remembers saying that to me.

shutting_down · 4 days

Well that is wonderful news! I am glad you are happy

shutting_down · 4 days

So strange. I am 5'2'' and 110lbs and my mom says I am too skinny. (Health professionals say I am just fine weight wise)

shutting_down · 4 days

What a cunt. I think you are right. She didn't grow up. I just don't understand how someone can be so heartless. If you haven't already found them, someone will want you, I promise.

shutting_down · 4 days

I'm not justifying his words by any means but it sounds like, to me, he was very jealous of your stepfather and was angry and didn't know how to handle it. Still a hurtful thing to say.

shutting_down · 4 days

No, it isn't wimpy of you to be hurt by that. It was a very horrid and painful thing for her to say.

shutting_down · 4 days

To clarify, I am not sure if my mom ever caught me self harming but when I was she told me "If I ever catch you cutting yourself, I will beat you to within an inch of your life." Fuckin' scary as hell. Have never trusted her since then.

shutting_down · 4 days

I got told this around your age as well. Don't listen to it. It's bullshit. You are doing fine.

shutting_down · 4 days

My mom says the opposite. She always says I am too skinny and need to be more like my sister. Well my older sister is just slightly taller than me and a little bit of more meat on her is very attractive. Were she skinnier, it wouldn't look good. I look good (And have been told by many professionals that I am of good weight) so fuck that noise.

shutting_down · 4 days

Fuck your friends. They need to mind their own business. I am by no means prudish nor a virgin but one of my close friends is. I don't make fun of her. Sure, I'll make some sexual jokes when she is near but never to her. She doesn't like them and I can respect that. I don't understand what is so wrong about not wanting to talk about sex

shutting_down · 4 days

My mother told me my older sister was her favorite and my father told me that my little sister was his favorite. I am the middle child of three children.

ProductiveVeteran · 4 days

I do this same thing with my LDR fiancee. Even if I am upset with him or things like that I always make sure to say I love him because of that irrational fear that the last words I would have said to him would have been angry.

notinsipid · 10 days

I hate when they just say that this has nothing to do with gender-bias. They (The doctors)* sure as hell wouldn't have said that same shit if it were a male going to the doctor.

DrPhenotypical · 10 days

Actually, no, it is easy. They aren't getting enough oxygen and it's much like holding your breath until you pass out.

JackPhilby · 11 days

Yup, I am an introvert. I am highly capable of being social and do engage in social activity all the time. My job requires it. But I don't like things like sleepovers or parties because of just the constant amount of people. It really does drain me both physically and mentally. I like people but not all the time

ambachan · 12 days

I am sure she will be. And she knows how to use it but I will teach her again. And she will be even more devastated because I am the only child who wants children (My older sister and her fiancee can't have them cause of meds the fiancee has to take and my little sister loathes children beyond belief.) But, I must be quite honest, I will not miss her. I know this will sound kind of horrible, and I do feel bad for feeling it, but I just do not love my mother. It isn't the teenage stuff either. Her and my dad treated me badly my whole childhood and teenage years. I just...I really don't love either of them and I feel horrible for feeling that way.

ambachan · 12 days

Well I know I used to be a spoiled kinda kid and she has done a lot for me. So she deserves it. And since I plan on moving half a world away soon, it is the least I can do

ambachan · 13 days

Yeah, I bought my mom a small jade elephant pendant (She likes jade) and then wrote her a letter and gave it to her. I plan on helping make brinner for her (She wanted pancakes for dinner) and haven't let her do anything around the house.

devilbird99 · 13 days

Sorry about people forgetting. Happy birthday!

Hemms3 · 16 days

While I agree with most of the things you have said I must say

I will feel no sympathy when I hear of your disease, your abortion or your rape

That is pretty harsh (but you have the right to your own opinion)

Hemms3, you should listen to these wonderful people. Based off of your replies, you sound much to young to be going out and doing things like this. Experiment more with one person, find a group and learn their trust. Don't just go out into a group and have sex with them. You will be playing a dangerous game with horrible consequences should you lose.

But, if you must go through with this, then be careful. Condoms condoms condoms. And make sure you have someone you trust there with you at all times. Based off of what I have read, you sound young and it would be dangerous for you to be going about alone.

Be careful, be safe, be smart.

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