Ok so just relax, let things flow. How about you not worry about kissing on the first date, you don't want to be worrying about things like this, you've got all the time in the world to kiss her if the date or first few goes well. Don't rush into things just cause you haven't kissed a girl, you'll get your chance if you relax, and don't worry that you'll want to kiss the girl before the night ends. It will happen if you give it time, might take a few dates, but it'll happen. By the way, I've never kissed a girl on the first date. I've been with my current gf for more than a year and we didn't kiss until after the 4th date, but after that we kissed whenever we wanted and did other things a week or do later. Just take your time with her, everything good will happen with a little patience. :) don't worry it want take forever either if she likes you, a few dates and a weeks time and you're good. If you really like her too than its a fair trade. ;)