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My brother died today, at 28 years old. I've never had to deal with the loss of a family member before, do you have any pieces of advice you could offer? by Jinjitin AskReddit

[–]TheCaptain81 1 point2 points ago

I for one lost my wife suddenly and tragically. It's never fun. You probably want to fully laugh but you can't. You won't be able to for months. My advise to you is remember the good time and remember his legacy. If you were that close to your brother he was a good person. Try every day to make the world a better place.

And from experience i can say you'll take with you going forward new memories that you never thought existed and a whole new outlook on what he left this world like. Take that and hold it close. Work through this in the grieving stage. You're going to get angry, I can tell you. It's not fun but it's necasary. But you will come out of all this with a new appreciation on what life is, and should be. Use this to enlighten yourself.

This is going to be the toughest time you've ever faced, your greatest advisory. He is beside you in strength, in weakness and in humor. I know this is been quoted and said before but the best thing I learned through a situation similar is do not worry about what is truly not important, the only true thing that is important is the times and memories shared and what our legacy will be when we leave this earth. Your brother sounds like great guy and has left a great legacy, in the end that's all we can hope to leave. Cheerios the great times you spent together.

TLDR: life is full of bs stress, enjoy it and appreciate those around you.

PS -This is from my phone I can only imagine the spelling and grammar mistakes after a few drinks. Be kind :)

So I saw this fellow Redditor at Blockbuster having a really nice night by Kcafoin funny

[–]TheCaptain81 1 point2 points ago

If a truck crashes and there are no redditors around to take pics, did said truck really crash?

The Rock Driving Meme by enfdudein 4chan

[–]TheCaptain81 -46 points-45 points ago

that's a great thing to open at 40,000 feet on a packed plane. For the love of christ this ISN't 4chan. I know better than surf that in public. Tag it, OP.

Reddit-what is the scariest image you've ever seen? by TwentyTwoNZin AskReddit

[–]TheCaptain81 1 point2 points ago

Why in good gods name was my first thought "Everybody loves Raymond?"

What is the nicest thing you've ever done that no one knows about? by XxTamzynLeighxXin AskReddit

[–]TheCaptain81 1 point2 points ago

Only one other person knows about this. This past Christmas i was doing ok for myself, had some extra cash after shopping for everyone in my family. About 2 weeks before xmas i hear about a family of a friend's son friend (if that makes sense - I have a friend who has a son who's friends with the son of this family) who's both parents lost their jobs and the oldest son is working to pay the bills and support the parents, the 2 sons and a young girl. I found there address out, confirmed the story and anonymously sent them a xmas. Food for the family and toys for the kids. I never saw the family or got to see them open anything, but i can only imagine how happy the parents must of been on xmas morning seeing their kids take a break from the cruel world and actually get excited about something.

Ctrl + shift + n by tha-money-wizardin funny

[–]TheCaptain81 1 point2 points ago

Nah.. Watch the Kony video and cry

The ABC's of MW3 (The Lone N00b) by socialtangentin mw3

[–]TheCaptain81 0 points1 point ago

that was awesome. The buzz saw had me going.

Kate Upton demonstrates the "cat daddy".(NSFW) by fuckhitlerin videos

[–]TheCaptain81 0 points1 point ago

To the top! You sir are a golden god!

This guy might make some fans commit suicide today. by Excellenzein nfl

[–]TheCaptain81 0 points1 point ago

Holy bejebus. I was about to go down the street and burn something down in Berea.

Does anyone promote their small business with branded pens or mugs or similar items? by icewaterin marketing

[–]TheCaptain81 3 points4 points ago

We do I don't suggest it. In 5 years I've never seen a sale directly related to them, but I'm in a niche highly specialized field.

Do you know where this comes from? by putafrangein WTF

[–]TheCaptain81 0 points1 point ago

Sigh.. i miss this show.

Reddit, what's your drink? by ADocksideBarin AskReddit

[–]TheCaptain81 0 points1 point ago

My stand by is a good 'ole Captain 100 and Coke. username relevant. If i want to switch it up I'll use Vanilla coke. Or if I'm REALLY crazy, vanilla vodka and coke.

Alternatively, what NFL star is a product of their team and wouldn't be great elsewhere? by innnikkiin nfl

[–]TheCaptain81 -6 points-5 points ago

I'm gonna get flamed for this but, Peyton Manning. Time will tell, i just don't see him being as successful in Denver nor do I think he would of been as good on another team. That team was built for him.

MJD a no show at camp. Apparently wants a new contract. by iKn0wr1gHtin nfl

[–]TheCaptain81 0 points1 point ago

"Is that why he's no there for camp!" Y U NO USE WORDS RITE?

Back in the day assassinations were done by sword by thefirm1990in WTF

[–]TheCaptain81 0 points1 point ago

cannot.. stop.. from.. clicking... * Ok that's enough internet for today.. bye.

Just out for a drive in Jersey City when, WTF! by Oneway252in WTF

[–]TheCaptain81 -4 points-3 points ago

Oddly that goes well with some DeadMau5..

Two years ago, my girlfriend was in Africa for 4 months. This weekend, she pooped this out... by poopstachein pics

[–]TheCaptain81 1 point2 points ago

Ohh i hate you.. I just scared the shit outta my dog i yelled AH, NO! so damn loud. I should of expected it though..

No girl will ever take our virginity! by mgairaokin funny

[–]TheCaptain81 0 points1 point ago

Does the guy on the far right have a playstation controller? I could be wrong.

Yuri's Night at the GLSC last night. We tried to get your attention, we had a sign and everything! by odd_oodin Cleveland

[–]TheCaptain81 1 point2 points ago

I think the rock hall inductions are this week and the big induction ceremony is next weekend. That's prolly why they pushed it up.

Question to Straight Guys. by gayhusbandin AskReddit

[–]TheCaptain81 5 points6 points ago

Lol sorry about that. I just feel bad for the guy. He think the family would disown him because I come from an ultra Catholic old school type family. I personally don't think so but it's his choice.

What is a food you like that everybody else seems to think is disgusting? by xXhiXxin AskReddit

[–]TheCaptain81 -1 points0 points ago

I like mine like that but with a little horseradish and a slice of swiss. Damn I'm hungry now. ಠ_ಠ

Is the heart rate monitor app a fraud? by dc2040in AskReddit

[–]TheCaptain81 0 points1 point ago

Don't forget you have to update your firmware on the modem as well!

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