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Still nothing wrong with that... by irawwwrin funny

[–]Sofiira 20 points21 points ago

No but a baby doesn't have the impulse control a 5 year old does. Screaming baby or quiet baby? Your choice.

Anti-abortion activists tell Harper 'debate is on' - Canada - CBC News by therealtryptoin canada

[–]Sofiira 2 points3 points ago

I'm not going to even respond to that as it is rather obvious. Go attend a Catholic school for a day in Ontario . . . or perhaps interview some of the young people in attendance at the rally (ahem . . . on a school day) to see where they attend school. Again, the answers are rather obvious.

Anti-abortion activists tell Harper 'debate is on' - Canada - CBC News by therealtryptoin canada

[–]Sofiira 7 points8 points ago

Because the Catholic Education system, that is publicly funded, is an active part of the movement.

Serial sexual assaulter on the loose....let's all be extra careful and vigilent. by shenaniganin ottawa

[–]Sofiira 0 points1 point ago

What happened to self-defence?!

The worst possible place to pop the trunk open by townidiotin WTF

[–]Sofiira 41 points42 points ago

I love in Southern Ontario - everyone I hear says it more like a-bowt. I thought that's how it was supposed to be pronounced. I have never heard someone say aboot.

Come on I put food in those carts by Jon_Galtin WTF

[–]Sofiira 1 point2 points ago

I can count on one hand how many times my husband and I have made it to the theatre since have a kid 2 1/2 years ago. It is expensive when you have to hire the babysitter. To top that, if you have time/money to go to the theatre with your kid, why not find something they find much more interesting!? I mean, right now I can spend the same amount of time at the park, laugh just as hard as I might at some raunchy comedy and have just as much fun rather than drag my kiddo to something he isn't going to enjoy and likely will disrupt for others watching.

Come on I put food in those carts by Jon_Galtin WTF

[–]Sofiira 0 points1 point ago

I know eh!? I have a 2 1/2 year old and we haven't even tried the theatre yet, but I think there will be a lot f careful screening before we make our first visit.

Come on I put food in those carts by Jon_Galtin WTF

[–]Sofiira 0 points1 point ago

That's utterly disturbing.

Come on I put food in those carts by Jon_Galtin WTF

[–]Sofiira 1 point2 points ago

Yup! There are a ton of afternoon programs like this.

Come on I put food in those carts by Jon_Galtin WTF

[–]Sofiira 129 points130 points ago

Let's ignore the fact that she brought a 3 year old to a crowded movie theatre and discuss the fact that she brought a THREE-YEAR-OLD to the Avengers. WTF?! (Mother of a 2 1/2 year old)

saved my kids life? 4 out of 5 stars. by spinrsxin funny

[–]Sofiira 0 points1 point ago

However, could you not be sued/held criminally responsible if you do nothing and you have the training?! I can understand that it doesn't cover trained personnel, but my brother is a paramedic and if he just stood by and watched for fear of being sued, he'd be arrested for not helping out with his knowledge.

saved my kids life? 4 out of 5 stars. by spinrsxin funny

[–]Sofiira 0 points1 point ago

Yup. Canadian here - Good Samaritan law is what its called here. Exact same policy.

saved my kids life? 4 out of 5 stars. by spinrsxin funny

[–]Sofiira 1 point2 points ago

We have a law that protects you from being sued called the "Good Samaritin's Law". In fact, if you have your CPR/First Aid and don't administer it to someone outside of your place of work, your liable to be sued not only on a civil level but potentially even with criminal negligence!

Great Day for a Picnic by freeaccountin WTF

[–]Sofiira 0 points1 point ago

Ah fenugreek and blessed thistle. How I DON'T miss you. lol.

Thanks for that! I'm going to keep that one saved for when I have my next.

Great Day for a Picnic by freeaccountin WTF

[–]Sofiira 0 points1 point ago

Underneath the tongue. It's called being tongue-tied. They clipped the frenulum (I googled it). I saw many lactation consultants. Have you heard of Dr. Newman? He's in Toronto. I drove 1 1/2 hours to see him - he's the one that clipped Connor's frenulum. I went three times to his clinic after nothing local was working. After nothing changed with visiting his clinic, I decided I would exclusively pump (when Connor was 3 months approx.). I did this until 6 months and then quit altogether. I did half and half (formula and breast milk until 8 months) and then went to formula to cow's milk at about a year.

Great Day for a Picnic by freeaccountin WTF

[–]Sofiira 3 points4 points ago

Breastfeeding was absolutely pushed on me when I gave birth. And I tried, and I tried and I tried. I quit at 3 months. But I pumped til 6 and had enough for my little guy to 8 months. I had what one lactation doctor said was vasospasms - sound painful? Because it was. extremely. painful. I took ibuprofen before, they clipped my son's tongue, I was observed and observed. I did everything right, but my little guy latched on so tight, he would completely cut off all blood supply to my breast and the pain afterwards was . . . excruciating. You wouldn't believe the amount of guilt I went through when I decided to quit at 3 months - guilt laid onto me from lactation consultants and doctors. At what point do I have to be able to say that I gave it my best shot, and its absolutely ok to go with formula, without being made to feel like the most terrible mother out ther?

Just an example of a woman who tried, didn't give up, but did eventually stop because her entire upper body went through some pretty extreme torture to get her kid the best.

I am so glad I changed. by TheAwesomeTheoryin atheism

[–]Sofiira 0 points1 point ago

Don't apologize. It's coherent. I understand exactly considering this was my language less than two years ago. I've just . . . . lost my faith. I mean, my life has never been better. If anything my marriage is stronger than ever since I've lost my faith. I promise when I get home from Easter (visiting too!) I'll check out the video, but I've heard it all. I was raised Reformed, so I know the language of being the bride of Christ - it has just lost all meaning on me now.

I am so glad I changed. by TheAwesomeTheoryin atheism

[–]Sofiira 0 points1 point ago

Interesting point on the parallel between the union of God and Mankind as a marriage between a man and a woman, but why can't that also apply to a man and a man when the same love and commitment exists in that relationship? You don't have to answer, because I know there are a huge host of responses to that.

However, what DO you say about the state of marriage today? I mean, Christians (not only Christians), have made a huge mockery out of marriage. So how is that relationship then represented? It's ideal to look at it as a beautiful, symbiotic relationship, but realistically it's not.

Are you married? Do you love someone? Have you committed yourself to someone else? Do you experience the joy of being with someone who fulfills and completes you? Is that relationship enriched with the blessing of children? If your answer is yes, then how can you justifiably take that away from someone else? There are gay men and gay women out there that want to live normal lives where they are in committed relationships building wonderful families. If you're answer is no, then how can you know what you are taking away from someone?

These questions led me to conclude that if there is a God, he is either very cruel or he doesn't exist. I'm not sure what I actually believe but I don't want to believe in the first and I struggled to "believe" in the second for a long time. Now, I just kind of go with the flow. I'm just living life and loving it. I'm raising my son with my husband to the best of my ability so he will become a responsible adult someday who is good to his fellow mankind. Right now, I'm not convinced I need God to help me with that because I'm doing fine by myself. I realize how foreign that sounds - only a couple years ago this whole posted would have outright offended me, but it's where I'm at in my life.

I am so glad I changed. by TheAwesomeTheoryin atheism

[–]Sofiira 0 points1 point ago

Oh I fully understand that there are huge disparities between different groups of Christians. I don't know where you live or what context you are coming from, but in North America (where there is are huge numbers of Christians versus Europe) the majority of Christians believe exactly what I wrote (again, you say you haven't read it).

I doesn't matter if you're Baptist, Evangelical, Reformed, Pentecostal, Catholic, Orthodox. The leadership for these types of Christianity, by and large, do NOT support homosexuality and YES, believe that if you don't repent from the "horrors" of being gay, that you're going straight to hell.

I'm not going to say it is intellectually dishonest to not go by everything in religion because it is either all or nothing. I grew up in a Reformed household. The Bible was left to a variety of interpretations that still confuse me to this day, but I do understand that it is largely contextualized. A mistake many atheists make in stating that Christian groups don't agree with homosexuality is because of a text in Leviticus which most Christians explain away with "Christ fulfilled the law" so Leviticus thus does not apply. Paul also comes out against gays and therefore Christians groups base their disapproval of gay lifestyles based on Paul's disapproval and not from Leviticus (New Testament disapproval).

I can also agree that these vast and different groups of Christians have different responses in how to address these issues, but by and large, all of these groups believe that if you do not repent and believe (any sin, not only gays), you are going to hell. Some present this up front, some prefer to try to convince the "sinner" of the error of their ways so they never have to bring up the nasty of what they actually believe.

A few progressive Christians do exist out there. I assure you, there aren't many. When it comes to the nitty gritty, they really do believe that you're going to hell if you don't repent from your sins (as defined in general by the Bible) and believe on Jesus Christ. I've met some Christians who are progressive and it's quite refreshing, but there aren't enough of them out there.

My point was . . . not about the number of people who believe in something so backwards, but it was addressing the ignorance of "converting" the gay. So if you do take the time to read what I had to say, maybe you can look past the whole "most Christians" and understand that the point I was trying to make was not about that.

I am so glad I changed. by TheAwesomeTheoryin atheism

[–]Sofiira 0 points1 point ago

My response to you somehow attached to Ianfloridian. Darn iPhone.

I am so glad I changed. by TheAwesomeTheoryin atheism

[–]Sofiira 0 points1 point ago

Comment was meant for nshin. Typing on the iPhone.

I am so glad I changed. by TheAwesomeTheoryin atheism

[–]Sofiira 0 points1 point ago

I get what you are saying. First, the majority of redditors are American so you are right in that the data can seem skewed. I do t live in the states. I live in Canada. I've also lived in Europe. So I've seem my fair share of religious circles. The religious circles I grew up in are huge into missions and have large missions in south America, china, all over Africa and in australia where yes thy are spreading the same hate I grew up with. Furthermore, across the world Catholicism and all of its missions worldwide is spreading the same hate. From Ireland, in Europe, where many minds have been enlightened and for many religion is now more a form of tradition ( not saying all!), it's also hard for you to be objective since most people surrounding you are the open minded version of Christianity. But I think in general, worldwide, that's not the version being presented. You can see that even by talkin to thekoreander that he doesn't put hell in the face of people he talks to but he still believes it. As for America, I haven't even touched on how scary their version of Christianity is. The live across the border from here and I can't express enough how even more fundamental they are then the Christian I presented.

I am so glad I changed. by TheAwesomeTheoryin atheism

[–]Sofiira 0 points1 point ago

In general, the majority of Christians believe what I wrote (but then again you didn't read it). I recognize that a minority of Christians are open minded but with the large Christian presence being in North America, it is safe to say that a majority believe exactly what I wrote.

I am so glad I changed. by TheAwesomeTheoryin atheism

[–]Sofiira -2 points-1 points ago

MOST Christians are not like your version of Christianity. First, understand that.

For a long time, I thought like you as well (when I was a Christian). Hate the sin, not the sinner right? But let me ask you something that someone asked me. When it comes down to the nitty gritty, if your friend does not repent of his "sin", when he dies, where is he going? Heaven?

I'm fairly certain your answer here will be hell. Because that's what Christians believe. If you don't repent and believe, your eternal destination is hell. Have you shared that with your friend? That you believe his sin is so bad that he will eventually live in eternal torture?

Who am I (or you) to say who someone should love? Have you been in a loving and committed relationship? Have your gay friends been in loving, committed relationships? What is the difference!?

Christians and humanity in general have made a mockery of marriage. But somehow we want to prevent gays from marrying because what . . . THEY are going to ruin the morales of marriage?

I'm in a loving, committed heterosexual marriage and I have an amazing little boy. I will tell you what my marriage has taught me - I could NEVER take the love, commitment and joy that my family has brought me away from someone else, regardless of who they are attracted to.

I hope you can think about these questions. I'm currently an agnostic/atheist. Not sure what I believe, but I know I can't believe in a vindictive, revengeful God who has killed nations in His name and who will, according to the Bible, put most of humanity into a fiery pit when He's all finished here.

I am so glad I changed. by TheAwesomeTheoryin atheism

[–]Sofiira 0 points1 point ago

They are commanded by who/where?!

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