I think I do have doubts. As I have described above, our "getting together" happened rather fast and sometimes I think that we just kind of stayed together out of habit and of being afraid of being lonely. There is also the issue that I will probably lose a large part of my social circle; many of our common friends are her friends first and mine second, and I am pretty sure she will not take kindly to my ending the relationship. This is one of the things I am most afraid of.

I will need to ponder on this, especially on whether I would like being with her for a long time, regarding the things I described. Some of those could probably be resolved with honest and careful discussions, but others cannot.